WORLD VOICES CHOICES
BY WILLIAM EATON |
Contents
Home Introduction About the Author The Riddle of the Miners The Anvil and the Hedgehog The Beauty of the System John Ruskin and His Mother Kleptomania and Its Discontents Smile and the Whole World Smiles with You Transgression Tiens, voilą une baffe There is an object called 'circle' Sick The Prophet Jonah World
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Smile
and the Whole
World Smiles with You
I
cast my vote with those who believe that happiness is what you feel
when even
your unconscious is not wondering whether you are happy or not.
However, this
is a bit of a joke, as must be any other attempted definition of
happiness.
Wanting for nothing, a clean conscience, requited love, seeing your
dreams come
true, watching your children grow up — all this sounds most happy on
paper, but
proves slippery in life. The moment one wants for nothing, for example,
one
wants for something else. And above all one may want for something else
because
one is panicked by the idea of wanting for nothing. Nonetheless,
certainly at moments when the enriched American professionals focused
on how
their net worth was increasing — or when they saw themselves buying the
cars
and vacationing at the resorts featured in the glossy pages of
magazines like
the one I worked for — these people felt enviable, and the resulting
surges of
pride and satisfaction could be declared happiness. And moreover, since
thanks
to this magazine and so many other American publications and
institutions,
these professionals believed that financial success and happiness went
hand-in-hand, when they thought of the size of their “nest eggs”, these
people
believed that they were happy — no matter how otherwise lonely,
anxious,
inadequate or unenviable they felt. And enjoying an illusion of
happiness is
one of the singular pleasures of human life. |